I won’t go into the details of when I first heard this question but I can tell you, although it has the appearance of wisdom, it shows a lack of Biblical understanding. Q. Christ doesn’t forgive me until I ask for it, so shouldn’t I wait to forgive someone until they ask for it? No. First, you aren’t the Father. You don’t have His capacity for grace.  Second, understand that you forgive for your sake, not theirs.  Third, take a [...] Read more »