Am I Giving Correctly If I’m Guilted Into Giving?

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Here’s another question from a reader of the RevTrev Newsletter. I’d appreciate having your thoughts on this topic. Please leave your comments.   Question: Is the members of the church responsible for meeting all of the Pastor and 1st family needs.  (I know church members who have lost gifts the Lord gave them because they felt guilty to meet the need of the pastor and his family when pressured to give what they don’t have or been instructed by the [...] Read more »

Blessing Boundaries Can Be for a Season

Blessing Boundaries can be for a season. It was that way for Paul. One night the Lord spoke to Paul in a vision: “Do not be afraid; keep on speaking, do not be silent.  For I am with you, and no one is going to attack and harm you, because I have many people in this city.” So Paul stayed in Corinth for a year and a half, teaching them the word of God. Acts 18:9-11 A blessing boundary season [...] Read more »

3 Ways to Know God has Called You To Your Work

Has God called you to work you’re doing? It’s not just pastors who are ordained for a vocation. Are you experiencing His blessing in your work? Don’t think I’m asking you “Is it easy?” Do you feel His pleasure on you as you do what you do as “unto the Lord?” Are you passionate doing in your work?  There’s going to be seasons when it’s more difficult. But knowing God has called you to a job helps you stick through [...] Read more »

When Should I Leave A Church?

Here’s a question I got from someone on Twitter. I asked her to email me because I had more than 140 characters of advice. What’s your advice for her? Question: As requested on Twitter I am emailing you.  I have went to this church for 6 years.  I absolutely love the pastors but don’t fit in with the people.  I have been involved in two different ministries, each for about two years, joined a woman’s Bible study for over a [...] Read more »

How to Encourage A Person in Ministry

I’ve had another reader ask me: “Hey pastor, I wanted to donate to your online ministry so I ordered two books from you.  You should have a way of donating after writing all the answers to the questions you get.  Does asking for a gift offering  not fall in your comfort zone? Answering in detail like you have done for me takes time and work.” This isn’t the first time I’ve been asked if people can donate. I’ve hesitated because [...] Read more »

Is Bi-Vocational Ministry God’s Best Plan?

Do we let fear or faith guide our decisions? Download the Entire Message at Expectancy Press Is Bi-Vocational Ministry God’s Best Plan? Are we selling ourselves short when we insist pastors take another job? Is that foolishness to ask that question? Let’s examine Paul as a tent-maker before we write it off as a pie-in-the-sky dream. This is a message “The Key of Blessing Boundaries” by Trevor Lund of revtrev.com   Subscribe via iTunes Tweet Read more »

How Pastors Can Help People Hope

Now I want to share something with pastors. I know it’s not easy to compete with TV, radio, and now internet speakers. You’re people can watch amazing speakers on Youtube that you can only quote. I want you to know that God doesn’t expect you to compete with anyone in the Kingdom. You’re to do the best with the gifts you have. But please, only share the words of life. What are the words of life? They are the words [...] Read more »

4 Things to Look For When Hope Needs To Ask For Help

I guess it’s a compliment for pastors: People move into a new area and start attending a new church and feel connect with the person leading the service and it’s natural for them to not get connected as easily in small groups. Then tragedy hits and in the panic to get someone a loved one to the hospital, they assume the pastor will know and meet them there. When it doesn’t happen, the pain is added to and… well, I’ve [...] Read more »

My Journey of Hope

I was a senior pastor at the age of twenty-five. Over the next seven years, I sat on a number of boards, was the area minister for our association of churches, was part of the national board, was called in to mediate between pastors and help churches in trouble and I hosted an international convention. The fishbowl wasn’t big, but I was becoming a big fish. But long story short, God asked us to lay our family, friends, finances and [...] Read more »

Walking Through the Valley

Walking Through the Valley – Dealing with the Prospects of Death with Bulbar ALS (Lou Gehrig’s Disease)By Howard C. Lund Paperback: 188 pages Publisher: Lulu.com (November 7, 2005) Language: English ISBN: 978-1411651906 Product Dimensions: 8.8 x 5.9 x 0.6 inches Shipping Weight: 10.4 ounces 978-0-9867642-5-7 (e-book Expectancy Press) Editions: Book, 5.5×8.5, 188 pages; e-book Price: $19.99/book; $2.99/e-book What’s It All About Written by Howard C. Lund in the last year of his time on this earth. His struggle will help you [...] Read more »

One Book and Three Booklets with More on the Way

Celebrate. I often forget to celebrate. Take today for instance. I knew I needed to get my book “Hope In Transition” to the printer. I’ve done the unwise thing of scheduling a launch for later this month with a Seminar called “Little Known Ways to Hope”  without having the book already in hand. How many times have I picked up a late night order and delivered it to the event as it was happening? Twice. After that I got cruel [...] Read more »

Pastor As Minor Poet

The Pastor as Minor Poet: Texts and Subtexts in the Ministerial Life by M. Craig Barnes is a great read to contemplate with and over. Here are some more of my thoughts on it. Tweet Read more »

Why I Love Social Networking

Why do I love social networking? I’m ghostwriting a biography for a local business man and I’m amazed at how well he remembers all the people he’s connected with – how they met, what they did, what they said… I can do that for a few people in my life…no, I can do that for one person in my life, my wife. And as time goes on, our stories mesh and merge. Image by Getty Images via @daylife So don’t [...] Read more »

How I Learn To Listen

Lately I’ve been hearing “wait for a week”, it gets me thinking I should slow down and consider God and give Him time so I can hear. I just made a list of of a number of projects I want to get done before I start a huge writing project. It’s not going to be easy fro me to wait…at least I know I’ll hear Him when I listen. This is one of the ways I’ve learned how to listen. [...] Read more »

How I Grow the Fruit of the Spirit

I need to admit I’ve got to learn more than I teach. I know I can only teach what I’ve learned. I don’t have all this together, but I do have an understanding of I can pass onto you.   We picked up a dog on the weekend that is great with the kids, but afraid of me. It’s really testing my patience… anyway, the thought occurred to me that the Father is probably using the dog to teach me more [...] Read more »

Why I Pray Hiding Prayers

Hiding Prayers Do you know that most pastors will say that Monday is there worst day of the week? Do you want to know why? Because what they should be doing Sunday is what Paul wrote to the Corinthians: We are human, but we don’t wage war as humans do. We use God’s mighty weapons, not worldly weapons, to knock down the strongholds of human reasoning and to destroy false arguments. We destroy every proud obstacle that keeps people from [...] Read more »