Should I Be Begging God to Change My Deadbeat Husband?

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Here’s a question from a reader who is going through a difficult situation. You can leave her your encouragement in the comments.   Question: I am so much confuse right now.  I wanted to move from the heartaches and for being abandon of a husband. We just married for almost 4 years but I never felt being loved instead he showed how he had hurt me for having an affair to many women and worse had already a child of [...] Read more »

Top 9 Verses on Provision

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These may not be all the verses on provision… but they are ones we need to meditate on, study in context and pray about implementing in our lives…. Nehemiah 6:9? They were all trying to frighten us, thinking, “Their hands will get too weak for the work, and it will not be completed.” But I prayed, “Now strengthen my hands.” 1 Kings 17:13-16 ?Then Elijah said to her, “Do not fear; go, do as you have said, but make me [...] Read more »

Training and Encouragement Will Be More Structured on RevTrev.com

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Training and Encouragement Will Be More Structured on RevTrev.com in 2012. I’ve decided to pull my knowledge of social marketing and blogging, and book writing, publishing and marketing into RevTrev.com. I may have time for some coaching in these areas so I think the best way to see if there is any interest in my experience with these topics is to blog about it. We’ll see what happens. I’m also setting up email courses for topics I’ve written on – [...] Read more »

My Prayer of Agreement

I’ve been called to be a pastor and right now I’m doing almost all of it online. I’m blessed with the work I do to receive my living, but also want to agree with God and his call on my life. Here’s my prayer of agreement I pray to agree with God’s thoughts for me. My Prayer of Agreement 1 Corinthians 9:14; Romans 11:29; 1 Chronicles 4:10; Deuteronomy 28:1-14, Romans 3:22-24; Galatians 5:25; 2 Corinthians 1:20; 1 John 2:27 Lord, you have [...] Read more »

5 Ways I’ve Failed at Confrontation

It’s one of those weeks with interesting phone calls, facebook messages, meetings and emails. It’s not even just because I stepped in it (more below). There are other hard conversations and emails in completely other directions. Man, you’d think I was paid to be a pastor. Anyway, I really need to thank everyone for your encouragement. It makes me feel good to know I’ve encouraged you in some way and blesses me so much to find out you’ve been praying [...] Read more »

Annoucing: The Freedom of Forgiveness AudioBook

Unforgiveness is the greatest inhibitor of spiritual maturity in the body of Christ. Too many people don’t understand what forgiveness is or the freedom that it brings. Learn what the Bible says about forgiveness and how to apply it to your life. Listen Now: Download Immediately at Expectancy Press (subscribers to my newsletter get this as an unannounced bonus) Tweet Read more »

How To Respond to Criticism

This has been one of those kinds of weeks. I’m not discouraged, but more amazed at the emerging pattern. I have a muslim who calls himself a cleric who wants to debate me on Twitter. I have a reader who keeps emailing me arguments from 1800 years ago who I sense wants me to convert to gnosticism. I’ve told them both, “I wasn’t argued to the faith I have, I can’t be argued from it.” I’ve never really seen debates [...] Read more »

What Does In Jesus’ Name mean?

You can ask for anything in my name, and I will do it, so that the Son can bring glory to the Father. John 14:13 (New Living Translation) You didn’t choose me. I chose you. I appointed you to go and produce lasting fruit, so that the Father will give you whatever you ask for, using my name. John 15:16 (New Living Translation) At that time you won’t need to ask me for anything. I tell you the truth, you [...] Read more »

Top 10 Verses on Budgeting

These may not be all the verses for budgeting… but they are ones we need to meditate on, study in context and pray about implementing in our lives… Proverbs 6:6-8 ?Go to the ant, sluggard; consider her ways and be wise; who having no guide, overseer, or ruler, provides her food in the summer and gathers her food in the harvest. Proverbs 21:5 ?The thoughts of the diligent tend only to plenty; but the thoughts of everyone who is hasty [...] Read more »

How do you Fast and Pray and Help Others Out?

These are questions I need a lot more time to answer fully but let’s start with the basics right now. How are we to do everything we are to do? Let me know what you think in the comments. Question: I’ve been so caught up in my emotions recently, I haven’t noticed that God was busy encouraging me with his servants and I have been ignoring. I recently sort references to aid me to understand more about our unfailing God [...] Read more »

The Path of Peace is Not the Path of Least Resistance

How many of you know it’s in the DNA of every man to be the one who comes to the rescue? We need to be the one who saves the day. Especially in the eyes of our wives and kids, we must be the hero. So what happens when all we can do is watch the baggage? We do what we can and wait patiently for hope to be actualized. Paul says us we have to be patient with hope: [...] Read more »

Praying in the Spirit Strengthens You in the Lord

But you, dear friends, build yourselves up in your most holy faith and pray in the Holy Spirit. Jude 1:20 (New International Version) A person who speaks in tongues is strengthened personally 1 Corinthians 14:4 (New Living Translation) Did you ever notice Paul wished everyone would speak in tongues? Read 1 Corinthians 14:5 a little slower, and stop at the first comma. If you jump up to the verse 4 you’ll see why… because the ones who speaks in tongues [...] Read more »

How to Be Healed of the Inner Wounds

To live unoffended at God, it’s not simply a matter of willing our minds to think different thoughts. Wounds are where the strongholds in our thinking take root. We need to be healed of these wounds. If you don’t know why you’re offended, but you know you are because your admittedly standoff-ish with the Father, or you don’t like hearing other’s testimonies or you’re quick to take offense at others, ask Him to show you the root wound using these [...] Read more »

How Do I Forgive Myself?

I was being interviewed by someone on his internet radio show and we got on the topic of forgiveness. He mentioned his need to forgive himself. He saw it as a noble cross to bear. It help him realize how depraved he truly was. I interrupted him. He was justifying living under condemnation. I told him, “Listen, there is a way to get past those overwhelming thoughts.” For a long time my response to this question of “do I need [...] Read more »

How to Stop the Blame Game with God?

This question was asked in a comment on a blog post. I really needed more time to develop an answer. Thanks to everyone who has left comments and tweeted out my blog posts. We’ve got over 1600 on just over 500 posts! Awesome! Question: Rob Sharp riverleadershipschool.com I agree with your post (http://revtrev.com/forgiveness/forgiving-the-father/) that we don’t need to forgive God! spot on. But its being a little theologically correct in an emotional issue. It is like the ‘I don’t believe [...] Read more »

Do I Have to Forgive the Person Who Has Done Nothing to Deserve It?

We’re continuing the story of a friend who was seeing demons who asked us to come and help. We found out he wouldn’t forgive his wife who betrayed him or his father who was harsh with him. This was based on a lie that someone in authority told him. “If God doesn’t forgive us until we ask for it, we don’t forgive others until they deserve it.” That’s not what Matthew 18:21-35 says: Then Peter came and said to Him, [...] Read more »

Do I Need to Forgive If the Other Person Doesn’t Ask for It?

The next story took place after we had returned from New Zealand. We had a friend who asked Karen and I to come help him with some spiritual problems he was having. He was seeing demons in his house and asked us to come and cleanse the property. There was an oppressive presence in the house as we prayed around the rooms. We really sensed the open door was in our friend. So we asked if we could take him [...] Read more »

Do I only need to forgive myself if I have taken advantage of others?

I so enjoy the question I get by email, in comments and in the Forum. Here’s one from a comment I needed more space to continue. Question: Do you agree that I only need to forgive myself if I have taken advantage of others? Answer: Peter, I think that’s a start, but in most cases we have to go further. Jesus told us: “Therefore, if you are offering your gift at the altar and there remember that your brother or [...] Read more »

How Can I Pray?

I so enjoy the questions I get everyday. You can reach me with yours through email, commenting on posts, or in the forum. Question: I am a very new born again Christian, I have only a year and a few months. And my vision is to become a “TRUE PURE CHRISTIAN” and prepare heavenly life. I believe that Jesus Christ set me free through His Cross and has a plan towards my life. The problem I have at the moment [...] Read more »

How The Two Stories of Forgiveness Ended

I’ve been sharing stories about two women I knew at the same time. Here’s how both stories ended. Six months later I notice a visitor in our service. She kept smiling throughout the sermon. She was a beautiful, physically gorgeous person. After the service I went to greet her and she ran to me and gave me a hug. “Nice to meet you.” I said, followed quickly with, “Have you met my wife?” I did not recognize her. She told [...] Read more »

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